Help?

[sgorny]

Does anyone out there have a spare copy of "Particles of Truth"? I had a great quality 1st generation one... but the SO went on a "fag shit" rampage, and destroyed it. Threw it down so hard the case splintered into 1000 little pieces.

Then he threatened to come home, gather up all my memoribilia, tapes, CD's, DVD.... and throw them away.

Told him if he did, he better leave and never come back. I will throw him out if he tries anything like that.

I want to throw him out right now, anyway.

Comments

[windtossed.livejournal.com]

Oh god. I'm so sorry about the situation with you and your SO. Wah. *hug*

[quinn222.livejournal.com]

I will throw him out if he tries anything like that.

Think it's time for that already. "Fag Shit"?

[rhiannonhero.livejournal.com]

Whoa. I've had the arguments about my 'obsession', but he's never flipped out before. :( What a mess. I'm so sorry to hear this. I downloaded Particles of Truth, but I don't have a hard copy, if that's any help.

[irishcaelan.livejournal.com]

and he's still there because?????

sorry, I'd be concerned for my own safety after that little episode.

[phibetafunkay.livejournal.com]

Oh, I think it's time...most definitely. "Fag shit?" Cripes.

[rayaluna.livejournal.com]

I don't know anything else about the situation, but any guy who says "fag shit" and destroys your property doesn't deserve someone cool like you.

[babylonbabe.livejournal.com]

Oh my god destroying & threatening QAF or anything with Gale in it is not acceptable!

I'm sorry :(

[dorset77.livejournal.com]

I have it on DVD from the TV broadcast. If you want a copy, e mail me. Unsolicited advice from married 25 years plus, any threat would have resulted in his bags packed and out the door, and this was clear from the beginning. Take care.

[poodles-m.livejournal.com]

I've been reading your posts about him, and now I will respond.

I'd be SO out of there, his head would spin.

[dissident-dream.livejournal.com]

"fag shit"?? you shouldn;t have to deal with anyone like that, absolutely awful behaviour

[citizenjess.livejournal.com]

I take it the SO wasn't aware of your penchant for "fag shit" when you got together? :((

In any case, I hope the situation rectifies itself, and if you do happen to secure a copy of PoT, I would be interested in details, as I haven't even seen the movie yet.

[qafhappy.livejournal.com]

Considering we've been together 16 years.... no, not originally. However, it was there, just less visible. The show really brought it out more.

And as long as it was a way for me to deal with my loss of trust in him, nothing was said. But now it's the big problem. If he could just be the center of my world, everything would be fine. It doesn't matter that he can rarely seem to talk to me without being cutting or sarcastic... and that most of what I do is wrong in his eyes.

Sorry for going on and on. I'll let you know if/when I find a source for PoT.

[citizenjess.livejournal.com]

If you need to talk about it, I am definitely willing to listen.

Also, thanks for any/all future PoT heads-ups. I keep seeing pictures circulating where Gale is dressed in scrubs and has a very disturbing white substance all over his face. I am quite sure it is a fantastic moment in cinema.

Re: so sorry

[iwantmygnr.livejournal.com]

not to be all cliched or anything, but i know how you feel...i have the same problem with my "husband" also. in fact, had a really good outburst this past wed...broken glass, pushing, etc...so i really feel for you...just isn't fair..he gets to do the things he wants, and read what he wants and watch what he wants...i just want the same for myself...one day tho!!